At this rate, I really doubt the two of you will make it to Valentines Day. Waking up beside you is a chore, and day after day she struggles to find a reason to keep doing it. I know you've been trying to reel her back in with gifts, dates, trips... but it's not enough. Your marriage is failing, and her eyes are already wandering. Your solution? Let them. Because the thing you really want is right here anyway.