Outside on a lovely summers day,with people wandering all around,i restrain my male to the metal bars and make him get to his knees. Environment friendly i will not drop my ash just any were,so he is commanded to open his mouth so i can use that instead. I also spit on my boots drop the ash on them and make him clean and eat the ash and spit,spitting down his throat to wash down the spit,and then putting out my hot end on his tongue. Athena