I know things have been going okay between the two of us since we started dating and we have a great marriage, but I have been feeling some urges. Every time we go out I find myself looking at other men and thinking about what they’d be like in bed. It seems almost every time we have sex I feel completely unsatisfied and now I am starting to believe it’s because you aren’t a real man!! I deserve a real man that can leave me breathless after sex.. not unsatisfied. You just are not man enough hubby.