You were always the “nice guy” and have never been able to rid yourself of that reputation. The amount of times you have been friend zoned by hot girls is not even calculable. I know guys just like you.. I have friend zoned your type before and have always looked through you. Your type is pretty much invisible. A woman like me wants a man, not like you. Sometimes women just want the bad boy. The exciting guy that is spontaneous and incredibly sexy. You just aren't that. I'm afraid you have the “nice guy syndrome” and it's not going away no matter how hard you try.