You already spend most of your day thinking about me, it's no secret. I know I have all your attention and anything else I want. It is time to stop wasting your money on things for your wife and start spending more on me. I want more gifts and tributes from you. If your wife wants you to take her out for dinner.. don't. You will send me the money you would of spent on dinner. It's pretty simple, you stop spending on her and start spending on the woman you truly love.