I'm in a hurry, I have a commitment. I need to choose a pants that fits me, because I know I've gaining weight lately. In fact I will be lucky if I find a pants that fit my body. Oh my God, I am huge! I'm too fat in the belly! I try to close the button on every pants and short jeans and none is good, because my fats jump out. I've noticed how men look at me with desire, the curves on my back, my muffin top. Maybe I should not lose weight, I am not on the established stereotypes. What I have to do? Workout or eat more?