You were referred to me by your previous counselor. She was more traditional, I am pretty unorthodox, but if you really want help you will do things the way that I tell you to. You want to improve yourself for your wife. You know you're a burden on her and you want to make things easier on your relationship so you've come to me for help. I can help you, but you're going to have to let go of everything you once knew. You're going to have to sacrifice. You're going to have to do things you've never even dreamed of.