Your wife is a glorified roommate - that YOU have to pay for! Marriages don't end overnight. How many years of nagging, lack of emotional support, bedrooms, and failure to encourage aspects of you that bring happiness will you take? What she wants always comes first and you are expected to cater to her and expect nothing back. Leave her. Spend your money on me. She can never be me. She demands like I do but she doesn't give you the release & mental stimulation I do. Get something for your efforts. Leave her. Come to me.