When someone gives to you full access and consent you lose immediately interest in them.

Meanwhile i'm dictating your life deciding even how fast or slow your breath will be.
I deny you a lot of things because you're not worthy of them and you know it.

That's why we'll play a game of "do you want to do this" you can't! Do you have this urgent need ? I don't care.
Am I treating you harshly? Not my problem.