You owe me, therefore you SHOULD feel guilty. Why should you go out for lunch, buy a new car, pay your bills, etc,when you could give that money to me? You've done so little for me through the years, it's time to make up the slack. I look so incredible in my snug little red dress, that you are helpless and easily cave to my demands. You eagerly contribute, because you know it's the right thing to do. Now get to work! I hate waiting, and I tend to be quite cruel, as you know, if my princess demands aren't met.